Teens

Adults' role:

� Adult credibility is an often elusive but essential element.

� There is often much testing of adult authority and boundaries. Be firm but don't overreact.

� Adults vary widely in their reaction to the wildness of some teen boys.

� Teen boys� behavior will sometimes flip-flop in different contexts. Don�t be surprised.

� Adults can be helpful in guiding apparently chaotic behavior into content for learning.

� As helpful as men are as teachers, they may lack relevant experience and training, and make assumptions that they can or can�t do it. (Either may be true.)

� Boys maturing in this post-modern world often have few older role models for learning non-stereotyped behaviors. Protect those who take healthy risks.

� Adults can model how leadership is important ministry.

� Adult male-female interactions in RE settings can be important role models for impressionable teen boys.

� Adults can benefit greatly from �de-briefing� together after activities.

� If things are really out of hand, ask for help!

� Ensure more than enough organization and planning, and be prepared to make adjustments.

� Establish rules and consequences WITH youth. Be wary of imposing authority.

� Channel rebellious leaders into specific, often customized roles. Help boys develop their own unique support network.

� Invite in guest speakers who bring interesting talents, skills, and especially props.

Things to Balance:

� Complementary adult styles.

� Spirituality, leadership and goofiness.

� Activity and time for self-reflection.

� Curriculum/informa�tion acquisition and group-building opportunities.

� Clear class goals and willingness to shift gears when necessary and as appropriate.

� Strict organization and an attitude of softer, �benign structure� (less noticeable).

� Good, productive space inside and outside.